Guest Post by Rina of Living with Low Milk Supply
There are various things that can cause low milk supply in breastfeeding, but do you realize that some supply problems originate from things that you do?
Here’s some common mistakes Mom’s make in the early days that may cause low milk supply issues.
#1 Clock-based feeding
Different babies may have different feeding schedules due to a difference in moms’ breast storage capacity.
Additionally, different babies have different nursing patterns.
Some babies are super-effective feeders, who can empty a breast in just 10 minutes.
Whereas others are more laid back and take their time to finish their milk.
Nancy Mohrbahrer, IBLCC gives a clear example in her recent article about clock-based feeding.
She was checking the progress of two newborn babies (less than 1 week old) on the same day. One baby actually needs 10 minutes to get 2 ounces of breast milk, whereas the other needs 55 minutes to get exactly the same amount of milk.
Look at this! 10 vs 55 minutes for the same amount of milk!
If the second baby is forced to finish his feed after 10 minutes, he will get very little milk and will be hungry all the time.
So again, remember to feed the baby based on his cues, not based on the clock*.
*Exception to be made is if your baby is too weak/sleepy, you need to wake him up more often, e.g. 2 hourly, to get him fed.
#2 Skipping night time feeding to get more rest
However, you need to know that your baby needs to nurse very frequently (most suggest every 2 hours in the first few days). At night, he may sleep a little longer (perhaps a 4-hour stretch), but don’t skip his feeding.
Here’s a couple of tips for easier nighttime nursing:
>> Co-sleep with your baby
When you sleep together with your baby, you are more alerted the moment she’s rooting as the first sign of hunger. You don’t even need to get down from your bed and take the baby from the crib to start nursing. Less energy spent.
>>Nursing in side-lying position
With my first baby, I ended up sleeping on the couch the first month after he was born. He was so clingy and nursed a lot at night, and yeah, he always cried the moment I put him down in the crib.
With my second, I started sleeping with her right after birth. I learned side-lying nursing right in the hospital, so I can ask the nurse whenever I faced difficulty.
Once we were back at home, I still spent a few days nursing her in sitting position at night. But by day 3 onward, I could lay down and sleep while nursing her at the same time.
#3 Unnecessary supplementation
This could be even worse if there are other family members with lack of breastfeeding knowledge push you to supplement feeds, just because your baby cries too often.
Whatever the reason, unnecessary supplementation affects your milk supply negatively.
This is because the more times you supplement, the fewer chances your baby has to remove milk from your breast.
When your breast receives less stimulation, it signals your brain to produce less milk.
And if you continue to do this, don’t be surprised if your milk supply drops in a matter of days.
#4 Too busy with household chores and elder children
And these ‘things’ get multiplied, and without knowing, you have missed one feeding session.
Here are some tips to manage the household while nursing a newborn.
>> Realize that your newborn needs you the most, so prioritize your newborn for the first 2 weeks.
Take a babymoon for these two weeks (this is when most important part of milk production stage is happening in this time) and focus on nourishing your newborn and yourself.
>> Accept help from everyone.
Whether it is from your spouse, parents, neighbors, anyone.
Take out dinner? Yes, please.
Babysit your elder children? For sure, please bring them to the park for a while.
Folding the laundry? Oh, yes.. for sure.
This is NOT the time of being “that perfect mom” who always has her house spotlessly clean and dinner ready all the time.
Please, help yourself and your baby by accepting help from others.
>> Prepare ahead.
If you can’t get easy access to help, prepare way ahead.
- Perhaps it’s freezer meals for the first few weeks.
- Some quiet time activities for big brothers.
- Or use paper plates and disposable spoon and fork so that you can get away from washing dishes.
>> Learn how to nurse in a baby carrier.
This is my favorite!
When all else fails, your cooking’s not done yet or your elder child badly needs your attention, I’ll wear my baby using my favorite baby carrier and nurse her in it.
It takes some time to master this skill, but once you are expert in it, you’ll be amazed at how easy it is to breastfeed while multitasking.
I personally love using a short wrap (rebozo style), but I understand different mothers have different preferences.
For the newborn phase, a stretchy wrap like Boba and ring sling are popular choices.
#5 Giving your baby a pacifier
Have you ever heard this kind of comment when your baby constantly nursing at your breast?
Is that true?
Frequent nursing is often regarded as pacifying with the breast.
But the truth is this is your baby’s way to tell your breast to produce more milk.
If a baby has limited access to the breast and is given a pacifier instead, your baby cannot tell the mother to produce more milk.
So, please stop giving your baby pacifier in his early days. Let him tell you whether he needs more milk by nursing at your breast.
That’s all five.
I hope this article helps you to understand what you should / should not do in your early breastfeeding days in order to have a good milk supply.
A version of this post was first published in Part 1 of Rina’s series: What Causes Low Milk Supply in Breastfeeding
Rina is a mom of two who once struggled to breastfeed her babies. Her low milk supply issue has inspired her to help other moms preparing for breastfeeding and pumping breast milk.
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